So you put your daughter away in a faciltity so that you and your girl could smoke and do 'fun' stuff...........I'll leave that alone at the moment...

Your first mistake...well, second, is that you should have checked out the facility before hand. In these crazy times, anybody who leaves their kid anywhere without knowing the enviorment and getting referrals is a...is foolish. Any reputable child care facility (at least in the U.S.) will allow you a tour, allow you to sit-in and watch the operation, and will provide you with referrals from other parents. If they don't allow any of that, you need to keep on walking.

As to how would I feel...given the situation you described, I'd feel like a bad parent for shucking my kid off so I could smoke weed. But hey, that's just me.