My mom died driving drunk with me in the car, when I was 12 years old. After that, I had 'carphobia' (there's probably a real word for that), and you couldn't get me in a car for any reason for 2-3 years. And I didn't get a driver's license until I was 24 (8 years past the legal age). And I don't drive a whole lot today, maybe once a week, a lingering remnant of my carphobia.