Problem of mine....if you dont want to know dont read I NEED ADVICE

[maryjanemama]

Penguin, I could tell you liked Jessica by the way you posted her pic 3 times. Go for the one you like the best. Life's too short. The other girl will get over it. You broke up with her in a good way, in my opinion, you did the right thing, little Pengi.

[RESiNATE]

I would've made it short and sweet..."Dawn, welcome to Dumpsville. Population: you"
~007~

A bit harsh, 007...but no less funny lol

[Byker]

well i did it guys..i broke up with her she was mad but i kept saying i still wanted to be friends and she tried to say i didnt care but i was like if i didnt care would i still wanna be ur friend?(cuz i do really care)

It sounds like you did it all right, and I'm sure Dawn will get over it. You're not choosing life-partners at 15, no matter how intense it gets.

(And on that matter, I recommend you wait a good long while. My cousin got married when she was 18. Ten years later she was divorced with two kids. At 18, her parents thought it was too soon for her to marry. At 28, she had learned to agree with them.)

For future reference, here are my rules for ethical break-ups:

1. Break up before you go looking around. Don't string someone along while you establish a relationship with someone else. End it first, and take your chances.

2. Break up quickly, simply, and honestly. "Brunhilda, you're a good person, but I don't want us to go out any more" is all you need. Don't be rude, but more words you use, the worse it gets.

3. Forget "let's just be friends." You've just dumped her, she doesn't need a friend like you, not right now, anyway. If you're going to be friends, it'll happen later on. Or not.

4. Once you've broken up, stay broken up. Otherwise you become a yo-yo: you get back together, but the same things that you didn't like about her (and she about you) are still there. So you split up, again, and it's worse the second time around.

5. Don't dishonor her, or yourself. When people ask whether you're broken up, and why, just say that you are and leave it at that. Don't disrespect her, don't put her down, and even if she's been banging you along with every other guy in town, the school nurse and a purebred German Shepherd, don't ever talk about her sexually. It's nobody's business but yours and hers.

6. And whatever you do, DON'T make the drunken 3am phone call that goes, "Hi, you ruined my life, I hate you, but I love you all the same and can't we get back together." This happens to a lot of guys when they're dumped, but I've heard of guys who are the dumpers doing it as well. And it's pathetic.

Finally, an important thing for guys to remember is that you're fine as you are. You don't need a girlfriend to be all right, and your life isn't somehow empty without one. If you find yourself without a girlfriend, take that opportunity to do stuff that your ex would never do with you -- mountain bike, lift weights, skydive, paint watercolors, write your name in the snow (I'll let you figure out how), whatever. Just find some activity that you really like and that you didn't do with your ex, and go do it. Do it a lot, too, if it makes you feel better.

You know what's amazing? Girls can smell unconfident guys -- and believe me, they stink! So when you're out on your bike on a single-track in the woods, and you get down a tough hill without taking a header for the first time ever, you will become instantly attractive -- to you and to chicks -- because nobody likes a loser.

So don't be one, and you'll find them coming to you. 'Till then, enjoy your life on your own terms.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Penguin, I could tell you liked Jessica by the way you posted her pic 3 times. Go for the one you like the best. Life's too short. The other girl will get over it. You broke up with her in a good way, in my opinion, you did the right thing, little Pengi.

lol ya that obvious? anyways im glad i picked her and byker fuck gettin married i dont want that till like 30 or so....anyawys good advice and thanks im not gonna ask jessica out till the weekend

[wardrobe grower 78]

well said by killabuzz(the mesiahh) i reckon,you just gotta go with the flow,whoever you bond better with you will feel better with,fuck the cars fuck the boats fuck the god damn snow mobiles,you will know who the right girl is for you....because you wont need no cars no sno mobiles n no shit because you will be happy with her the way as she is, of that when you find the girl for you,ive been with chicks when all you think about is snow mobiles n other chicks...cause she aint the 1 for ya,if shes happy with what youve got n your happy with what shes got then you will be laffin
take it easy man,you have many years of relationships and break ups in front of you like every1 else has

[Imotep]

thinking back to my school days;
whenever i followed my heart, I should have followed my dick.
whenever i followed my dick, I should have followed my heart.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

hey whats up all? ya the thread kinda died, but just to let yall know i asked her out tonight and she said YES hehe life is good lol

[GHoSToKeR]

congratufuckinglations penguin my man

\m/ rock on lol

[00Ampersand]

I'm jealous...penguin's actually someone who can compete with my mad playa skillz, and he's only like 15
~007~

[never 2 much]

congrats penguin? are you happier now?
you should be, if you like her more!
that is the way to go
congrats!!!