Problem of mine....if you dont want to know dont read I NEED ADVICE

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Before i post my problem i just made this quote "Life is so great, its as if im on top of the world. Yet i feel life is almost too great and im about to topple over."-Cameron Ray(wow reading that again its a horrible quote) anyways thinkin about that so ya heres my problem

ok well ive been going out with this girl for about a month now. She lives about 20-30 mins away (depends on time of day)and i cant drive so i see her about 1-2 times a week. She doesnt smoke,she will never go to my house, and her parents are gay when we are at her house. About the same time i started going out with Dawn(current gf) i met this girl named Jessica. Shes real cool shes a juinor, Dawn is a sohomore like me. She smokes, has a car, and always goes to my house, and she knows how i feel about her and i know how she feels about me but she hates that i have a gf. So ive done a lot of thinking and im gonna break up with Dawn. I'm just not sure how to do it, cuz i dont want to hurt her but of course im going to. I just wanna do it like nicely, and well frankly ive never dumped a girl i usually get dumped(pathetic ya). So well i just dont know how to do it to do it real nice. If you guys could give me some suggestions it would be greatly appriciated. Ya i know some of you right now are thinking "this guys an ass" or "stupid 15 year olds" but ya know what i dont need that, i just need some sincere(sp) help. and with a lot of my problems and others that ppl have posted i feel like u guys always help and are all really good at giving advice, so i wanted yours.
Thanks, Penguin

sToNeDpEnGuIn420 Reviewed by sToNeDpEnGuIn420 on 10-19-2004. Problem of mine....if you dont want to know dont read I NEED ADVICE Before i post my problem i just made this quote "Life is so great, its as if im on top of the world. Yet i feel life is almost too great and im about to topple over."-Cameron Ray(wow reading that again its a horrible quote) anyways thinkin about that so ya heres my problem ok well ive been going out with this girl for about a month now. She lives about 20-30 mins away (depends on time of day)and i cant drive so i see her about 1-2 times a week. She doesnt smoke,she will never go to my house, Rating: 5

[KillaBuzz]

well it shoodnt matter whether er not she haz a car er smokez bud wit yah. u shoodnt base yer decision on thingz like that. if one ov them iz the girl fer u, u'll b wit her fer yer life, an im sure both ov u will end up havin carz an she will let yah smoke yer bud. that bein said, therez rlly nuttin else i can help yah wit. itz up 2 u to decide which girl u have stronger feelinz fer, thatz the one an only thing u shood b basin yer decision on. an one more thing, so wut if u can only c her a few timez a week, thatz more then enuff 2 keep a relationship goin. hahah now that i think ov it u sound juss like my buddy. hiz gf'z mom iz a proby officer so he hatez goin over there an she can never go 2 his house, an he alwyz complainz bout how she dunt like pot. i dunno how any1 can base a decision bout a relationship on pot. make sure u dunt hurt the 1 u break up wit when u do it, i mean dunt feel bad if shez sad er wutever, juss dunt go up an say itz over beeitch. anywayz, good luck penguin, i think yer a smart enuff guy ta make the rite choice here.
PeAcE

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

no im not basing my decision on those factors at all i was just stating it. Because honestly if i cared about shit like that i wouldnt be going out with her in the first place ya know? Its just more how i feel about them like i mean they both are real cool, but im just happier around jessica yet around Dawn im not happy cuz she always disses on me and stuff. So i mean and the real question was not who to choose but how to break up with Dawn, thank you for the post tho Killa

[thcbongman]

Just be nice and respectful. Just ask her if you can have a talk, and just tell her. Thank her for the good times, and if it's possible remain friends.

I think you made the right decision, life's too short.

[KillaBuzz]

oh rite on penguin hahah...im such a dumbass sumtimez
anywayz yah, u definatly wanna tell her ud like 2 stay friendz, it will mean alot 2 her an u will b happy u made that choice later on. the thing iz, wit ladiez, iz that once u start bein rude 2 one ov em, the girlz talk, an soon enuff they all think yer an ass yah kno? so juss b respectful, an im sure thingz will b fine.
PeAcE

[apsinthion]

Killas right you have to make that decision on your own if your happy with Dawn then stick with her but if your finding the seperation hard and you feel that you'd be happier with Jessica then that's the way it gonna have to be.

If you do choose to break up with Dawn then the only advice I could give you is to be totaly honest and tell her that you dont feel that that you are seeing enough of each other and that you've met someone else that you really like and just try and be as gentle as you possibly can with her about it.

But then it's all down to you on that. It's your decision.

[GHoSToKeR]

If you do choose to break up with Dawn then the only advice I could give you is to be totaly honest and tell her that you dont feel that that you are seeing enough of each other and that you've met someone else that you really like and just try and be as gentle as you possibly can with her about it.

Exactly! Exatamente! genau! Exactement! Esattamente! ¡exactamente!

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

well i did it guys..i broke up with her she was mad but i kept saying i still wanted to be friends and she tried to say i didnt care but i was like if i didnt care would i still wanna be ur friend?(cuz i do really care) but ya i feel kinda bad but that cigg made everything better anyways thank you for the advice god what would i do without these boards

[00Ampersand]

I would've made it short and sweet..."Dawn, welcome to Dumpsville. Population: you"
~007~

[BOgart.bitch]

it should be easy and understandable.

tell her you dont like the distance and you want to be able to find someone you can be with more.. just like she should find someone she can see, too.

the truth always works best.