thanks for the respones everyone. i think birdgirl hit it on the head b/c she said it really hurt but after a little while it didnt hurt anymore. and no she didnt have a tampon in and she isnt a virgin. so thats gotta be it. and i have no problem with being on top or on bottom but she likes to be on bottom b/c she says that im better at it. we tried slowing down and not going as hard but when her legs are on my shoulders i still hit it even if im not going fast and hard. so i think your right bird and thank you very very much.
-JC