Quote Originally Posted by graph
If you're so against it, why would you try to change him? It's naive to think you can change people, and I think he's just straight up lying to you about wanting to quit. If he wanted to quit, he would have quit by now. It's weed, not heroin. Jeez.
Yeah fair point, thanks for that. He should just bit the bullet and do it if thats what he thinks he wants to do. There have been several "just one more night with the boys".............and like I have tried to explain to him, it's not the drug I have a problem with, it's the way he is with me.

If he were stoned but lovely (like he is when he's had a beer) then I'd wlecome it!
boogabubbalou Reviewed by boogabubbalou on . advice please. Can he quit? Hey! My BF smokes every day and is fed up with it ruining his life. It's ruining us. He has no libido (or is that my affect on him). He said he wants to quit. Is this possible to do? After 17 years? Tell me it is, please Bubs xx Rating: 5