lol me smoking? nah i quit..........but that was the legal stuff.
He does work.........has been in the same job for 12 years, pays his mortgage etc so he's doing ok but he's off sick right now, due to go back soon.

What didn't help is that I told him to go ahead and smoke as much as he wanted because I didn't want to ruin his life by trying to control him. Every other woman in his life used to flush it down the loo and give him a hard time!