Quote Originally Posted by boogabubbalou
Guess it must be me then. He says he has the desire but not the energy to do anything about it. Even though I have done my bit in the past to make sure I participate but he doesn't need the energy, he seems disinterested.

He has told me some wonderful things but when he is stoned he just can't seem to be bothered to even talk to me?
Maybe it's you.

I'm sticking with my first "he was probably a worthless slob before" argument. Desire but no energy doesn't even make sense to me. If you have the desire, you work for it. No offense, your boyfriend gives people who smoke cannabis everywhere a bad name. I believe he's just blaming his problems on something that can't fight back.

Keep in mind sometimes when people get high they feel silence is deafening. There's less of a need to talk when you can sit and enjoy life for what it is, you know?

And Kryzco, amplify was the word I was looking for.
graph Reviewed by graph on . advice please. Can he quit? Hey! My BF smokes every day and is fed up with it ruining his life. It's ruining us. He has no libido (or is that my affect on him). He said he wants to quit. Is this possible to do? After 17 years? Tell me it is, please Bubs xx Rating: 5