Guess it must be me then. He says he has the desire but not the energy to do anything about it. Even though I have done my bit in the past to make sure I participate but he doesn't need the energy, he seems disinterested.

He has told me some wonderful things but when he is stoned he just can't seem to be bothered to even talk to me?
boogabubbalou Reviewed by boogabubbalou on . advice please. Can he quit? Hey! My BF smokes every day and is fed up with it ruining his life. It's ruining us. He has no libido (or is that my affect on him). He said he wants to quit. Is this possible to do? After 17 years? Tell me it is, please Bubs xx Rating: 5