Hey,

I rekon your boyfreidn is using weed as a way to deal with certain pressures, speak to him find out whats on his mind. Anxeity is a huge libido problem so he might be smoking to rid his anxiety which i wouldnt say is using weed but abusing it.

Weed aint a miracle drug it wont get rid of your problem no drug will, only YOU can.

Limit his smoking, a very good thing to do would be make a cut off time like he can't smoke till 6pm. Cos if he's waking up and smoking then he's probly gonna spend the rest of the day monged out on your sofa.

Do something differant with him every week, go away together, find a mutual hobbie you BOTH enjoy!

Let us know how things go thought,

All the best