advice please. Can he quit?

[boogabubbalou]

I should have quoted, that message was for Funky monkey, but thank you to the person above me too !! <feels like I'm digging a hole> lol

boogabubbalou Reviewed by boogabubbalou on 09-05-2006. advice please. Can he quit? Hey! My BF smokes every day and is fed up with it ruining his life. It's ruining us. He has no libido (or is that my affect on him). He said he wants to quit. Is this possible to do? After 17 years? Tell me it is, please Bubs xx Rating: 5

[LazySmoking420]

Can he quit?

No one can truely answer that question better than your boyfriend. When you highly abuse cannabis, Like I do. Sure it can and prolly sooner or later will post some minor and even major socal problems in your life. But once you get high and experience the pleasures that cannabis induces on your mind and body. It's like sex, Sure you can live without it but why would you want too?

Maybe some posters could help me out here. It opens your mind to the world. You start to understand. You feel no pain. You feel peace with the world. It's really a nice little life tool to use but not abuse.

Except your man for the patch he chooses or reject your man. And move on.

[Fengzi]

I am saying, that if you have no trouble stopping the use of caffeine, then you would have absolutely no trouble of quitting weed. Unless... weed is truely as addictive as people say.

Ahh, ok. I was looking at it from the other side. I stopped smoking weed for 5 years, quit smoking cigs altogether, but just can't seem to stay out of Starbucks despite the fact that the doc has me on meds for high blood pressure

[boogabubbalou]

Can he quit?

No one can truely answer that question better than your boyfriend. When you highly abuse cannabis, Like I do. Sure it can and prolly sooner or later will post some minor and even major socal problems in your life. But once you get high and experience the pleasures that cannabis induces on your mind and body. It's like sex, Sure you can live without it but why would you want too?

Maybe some posters could help me out here. It opens your mind to the world. You start to understand. You feel no pain. You feel peace with the world. It's really a nice little life tool to use but not abuse.

Except your man for the patch he chooses or reject your man. And move on.

Please remember that it's not all good............sure it makes a cloud in the sky look sharp, the sky more blue, the music more soulful, sex (apparently) more intense...........but admit the comedown. Would you rather feel fantastic all the time? Of course, so you either smoke all the time, or accept the negative comedown............he has decided to smoke all the time. And doesn't want to. Like you said, not to be abused. Yet lots do abuse and it's spoling their time on earth. Remeber those people. We are not alive for long. And it's our only life..........no good wasting any time at all. One day wasted will be a regret when you only have 2 hours to live. Probably doesn't make sense but thanks for letting me vent xx

[orangeman]

Hey! My BF smokes every day and is fed up with it ruining his life. It's ruining us. He has no libido (or is that my affect on him). He said he wants to quit.

Fed up with it, ruining your lives, wants to quit. What is he smoking crack? No offence, but I never met anyone that smokes marijuana in your situation. Not saying it isnt possible but, ya know.

[LazySmoking420]

Please remember that it's not all good............sure it makes a cloud in the sky look sharp, the sky more blue, the music more soulful, sex (apparently) more intense...........but admit the comedown. Would you rather feel fantastic all the time? Of course, so you either smoke all the time, or accept the negative comedown............he has decided to smoke all the time. And doesn't want to. Like you said, not to be abused. Yet lots do abuse and it's spoling their time on earth. Remeber those people. We are not alive for long. And it's our only life..........no good wasting any time at all. One day wasted will be a regret when you only have 2 hours to live. Probably doesn't make sense but thanks for letting me vent xx

Point well taken. And I'm glad I'm not to the point of having to be high all the time. If I was I'd prolly have to stop aswell. I wish you good luck with you and your boyfriend. Try not to judge him threw his battles to quit.

Let him have his "one last dance with mary jane to kill the pain."

I do believe that some people were not cut out to live on this plant called earth. Reality.

[yabatab]

Is this possible to do? After 17 years? Tell me it is, please

Bubs xx

After 17 years of smoking herb his problems
have come about recently?

Well I would have to say that his problems have
nothing to do with smoking marijuana at all. More
than likely there is something else that is causing
him to be that way. As for his sexual performance
it could be ED and that could be his reason for the
increase in smoking herb. You need to have a talk
with him and try not to blame his weed smoking he
might actually blame smoking as a way to avoid
telling you the real problem.

[yabatab]

Or maybe heavy smoking is not good for you period?

Now what was I going to say? I forgot

[skulltorcha]

He better well should stop smoking.. cigarettes are the most stupidiest things ever, it doesnt give you a high at all, it just make's you look "cool".. if you actually think smoking cigarettes is cool..

But unfortuntly people get addicted and then they cant stop.. your slowly commiting suicide by doing this you're killing yourself.. for what? i dont see how something like cigarettes is legal the government is fucked.

It aslo really pisses me off to see all these smokers because they're not only dangering their health they are putting everyone else's health at risk by all the second hand smoke.

My dad has been smoking more then a pack a day since he was only a kid, now he just got some test back today to see if he has lung cancer.. well he was tested positive and now ive been told he only has 3-12 months to live..

[skulltorcha]

So yeah if i was you id get him off the cigs instead of the weed..