advice please. Can he quit?

[enthused]

hangover from weed? what?

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Honestly, you can blame weed all you want. I don't care, personally, and it won't affect me at all. However, in a few months after he quits and he still doesn't have a job and still treats you badly, I hope you come back here as a new member of the community and a new cannabis smoker.

[boogabubbalou]

could the libido bit be linked to the fact that he knows he's letting me down and feels a bit ashamed of how he's been treating me?
It's not a problem I've had to deal with before!

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If you're so against it, why would you try to change him? It's naive to think you can change people, and I think he's just straight up lying to you about wanting to quit. If he wanted to quit, he would have quit by now. It's weed, not heroin. Jeez.

[boogabubbalou]

lol me smoking? nah i quit..........but that was the legal stuff.
He does work.........has been in the same job for 12 years, pays his mortgage etc so he's doing ok but he's off sick right now, due to go back soon.

What didn't help is that I told him to go ahead and smoke as much as he wanted because I didn't want to ruin his life by trying to control him. Every other woman in his life used to flush it down the loo and give him a hard time!

[halo]

Maybe he isnt sexually attracted to you. Has his libido always been a problem or is it something new. Maybe your not his type...

[boogabubbalou]

If you're so against it, why would you try to change him? It's naive to think you can change people, and I think he's just straight up lying to you about wanting to quit. If he wanted to quit, he would have quit by now. It's weed, not heroin. Jeez.

Yeah fair point, thanks for that. He should just bit the bullet and do it if thats what he thinks he wants to do. There have been several "just one more night with the boys".............and like I have tried to explain to him, it's not the drug I have a problem with, it's the way he is with me.

If he were stoned but lovely (like he is when he's had a beer) then I'd wlecome it!

[Genuine17]

WEED IS A SCAPEGOAT

[boogabubbalou]

Maybe he isnt sexually attracted to you. Has his libido always been a problem or is it something new. Maybe your not his type...

No, it wasn't a problem until about 2 weeks ago when he started smoking more. We were so hot! He felt like all his christmasses had come at once.

[Kryzco]

there is something he's not telling you

you better talk to him

how long have u been together might i ask