trust me, compromise means nothing to them. Smoking weed makes you retarted, thats pretty much is in his dumbass mind. Ive tried compromise, trust me, I hate agurments, I avoid them as much as possible, fuck drama, smoke weed and live in peace baby. but all they are about is getting drunk and being angry all the time. as for changing myself and drinking with them just to satisfy there needs, Im just not the type of person to do that. I never have changed myself to satisfy other peoples needs, I always have been and always will be true to myself, Im not gonna change from being me just so people will like me more.