Congratulations! Yep, she's a girl. Unlike humans though, if you don't treat her right she'll grow balls on you. Just think if humans worked like that. We'd have to treat all women like goddesses!

I keep bowls of water around too. Gets too dry indoors if I don't. Hell, still gets too dry when I do; almost bought a humidifier yesterday, but I resisted the urge and dragged myself out of WalMart before I spent every dime I had on me. "Stan... Stan... go on without me, Stan...."

Not sure what the droopiness prob is; it could be so many things. The soil looks good though, so I'd suspect overwatering, but since that's so obvious, then you've probably made sure that's not it. I had a plant get all droopy like those recently, but that was because I kept it in a small pot for a very long time and it was rootbound (purposely so). Your pots look big enough, so that's likely not it either. Soooo...I dunno. Wish I could be more helpful!