I need to be more strict , and at times I feel I am cause my 17 yr old is always saying mom " chill" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!! yeah right!!!
Sometimes it takes a man for them to listen, I know as a kid growing up , My mom spoiled me and I took advantage of her, but as it turns out , she has passed ( at 60 ) and I am not speaking to my dad. Like I said me and my husband have been together 8 yrs, this is the first and I am sure the last time he will touch him , other than rough housing. My son is fine right now joking with his friends, he wants his life to be one big party!! He is into smoking pot with his pot head friends, which i feel is better than alcohol cause alcohol in excess can really fuck you and other people's lives up!!
My son does not appreciate all that my husband has done for him ,and when he is working ( my hubby ) in the yard or on his car ---- never once did my 17 yr old say , ya need a hand?? But my 13 yr old does almost ever y time. Now , you tell me, who respects who???
Thanks for all you guys that stuck up for my husband
I tend to be too easy - going and it takes ALOT to piss me off (ya know like being a door mat) which is not good! But thats the way I was brought up , respect your elders, and the only thing I did wrong when I was growing up was got pregnant at 17, which I dont regret casue I luv my boys, and I have been working all my life!
So criticize me if you will, but thanks to you guys who support me and my hubby, I still want all 3 of us to sit down and talk this out.........
take care all
WG

I just wanted to add I did graduate from St. Pius X HS in 1982. sO MY SON GRADUATING IS very important to me.