Interesting sitiation. The stepfather can not touch the child in an aggressive way period. I believe that kids need proper discipline but there is a rhyme and a method.

Unfortuanately you have tough circumstances with the biological father. A step-father has no right to put his hands on a child that isn't his period. YOU choose the stepfather, he did not choose to bring that man into his house. Why should he chose to allow him to touch him?

The fact of tha matter is, if the kid doesn't respect the stepfather, he doesn't have to. It is not his father, he is YOUR man.

I understand that he loves, and does things for the boy's but that doesn't give him authority to take over as a father figure if the mutual respect isn't on both ends. YOU have to take priority in the punishments.

This kid needs to learn some hard life lessons it looks like. At his age, it's too late to bring it back down to thelevel of a 6 yr old.

I don't mean to be offensive to you, but it sound slike this noy wasn;t properly disciplined from a young age and now he has bad habits and a bad attitude. Life has to teach him now. He is 17, the time for learning respect from your parents is over at that age, you should have already learned it.

I don't even cuss in the presense of my mother or father out of pure respect. If i was to swear in front of them I'd be ashamed of myself. This is because of the programming they intilled in me when I was a lad.

To be honest, at this pint in life the only way he is going to learn things he should have already learned is by life problems.


Good luck.


Keep the stepfather's hands off the boy. You are fucking with primal instincts here. The other brothers may get involved if that issue isn;t resolved... then you have an ugly situation on your hands.




I had a stepfather of sorts when I was a teen. He started off knowing his place, but eventualy he became comfortable and complacent. Eventualy he started to get in on the discipline. BIG mistake. It wasn;t that we didn;t need discipline, it was that we were not about to accept it from some guy our mom brougt in the house. We did not respect him as an authority figure. Needless to say one day things got out of hand. I was arguing with my mother and he stepped in trying have me end the conversation.

He said "It's over, you understand me? No more out of you." I reply, "Who the fuck do you think you are talking to me like you are my father? You can smoke a cock." Furious, grabbed me by the shoulders and slammed me into the wall. Before the night was over he was in the hospital having surgery on his jaw. He has a full row of fallse teeth and his jaw has metal spikes implanted to keep it stable. Moral of the story..... DON'T FUCK WITH OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS. OR YOU GET FUCKED UP.

I;m gettin all pissed just reliving this story so that is where this post ends. :P