i agree with the step dad
sometimes we get out of line with the disrespect
your husband set some boundaries with that move
i bet your son wont slam no more doors in his face
tough love is needed in situations like this
your husband probobly does love your boys
theyll get over it
smoke a blunt together and thats it

if your husband was not a step dad and he would do that
you wouldnt say nothing.how do you expect to him to act like a dad
when you dont treat him like one.

life is hard when shit like this happens