why are u askin for help from the fellaz seems to me that u need a ladies advice. I think while ur makin out with her try slidin ur hand up her shirt and massage her breasts, then if she dont slap you slowly bring your hand down and start to rub her kitty while kissin her neck and nibbling on her ears, if she still dont stop u then unbutton her pants and keep goin. remrmber we like for you guys to make the first move so if she dont stop u then she wants it to.