ok the best way I can put it

its not your cornhole thats getting dildos up it

its his

therefore none of your buisness

his sex life is his and yours is yours

he's probably not the only friend you have thats got dirty little secrets

hell you may have some too, maybe not to that extent but shit everyone has done something that they wouldn't tell others in their sex lives

point is stop being so anal retentive about it and move on, he was doing this before and he was your friend and he still does it and hasn't changed as a person

in the end thats all that matters

it hasn't made him less of a friend