Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!

But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.