SOME THINGS SHOULD STAY IN THE BEDROOM

[Kenn]

ah goddamnit im high

Im fkn high too man . cheers 4 the comments man nice to see theres someone who wld feel the same , my ass just for shittin thanks.:thumbsup:

[qdavid]

That's gotta be one of the funniest things I've ever read. But you gotta chill man. She could have benn makin' it all up for whatever reason. but lmfao.

[orangeman]

LOL thats hillarious. I dunno what to do, just deal with it..but dont touch his hands lol.

[birdgirl73]

I don't necessarily think it has to do with your mate's potential bisexuality or your fear of it. I think you simply have some basic discomfort with the idea of a dildo up your own rear. And to think about it happening to someone you hadn't imagined in that way just makes it worse. This is about your discomfort with your own sexuality and perhaps your own attitude toward toys or anal stimulation, not your discomfort with him, really. Lots of straight guys like anal and/or prostate stimulation. And plenty are open-minded about playing with toys. Truly, shouldn't consenting adults be able to play in the manner they choose? And does someone else's idea of a turn-on have to be the same as yours? No. That was fairly private stuff you overheard, and what I wish made you far more uncomfortable was the idea that his lady friend was sharing tidbits about her partner's likes/dislikes in an indiscriminate manner.

You're clearly fairly young. As you mature, you'll get to where you're more comfortable with your own feelings and attitudes toward sex play and sexual experimentation of various kinds. And you'll come to recognize that other people will have a wide variety of interests, including toys, and that those interests, if you find yourself choosing to eavedrop again to find out about them, doesn't make those people perverted or stop them from being good mates, good friends.

[Snorbel]

It's just the prejudice of your culture.

Imagine how most people have been indoctrinated against drug use. Now imagine how they would feel about your use of cannabis.

This is prejudice, not based on anything logical. Just as some people may never look at you the same when they know you use drugs, so you look down on your friend.

If you are to resolve your prejudice, maybe the cannabis movement stands a chance. As we try to change people's prejudice and longstanding disdain for certain practices, so must you become more accepting of other people's actions/preferences.

Do you accept anal sex or anal foreplay with a girl as the receiver? A female anus is no more built for sex than a male anus.

[graph]

Some people are black. Some people are white. Some people smoke weed, some people drink. Some people like having dildos shoved up their ass, some people think that you should judge someone differently because of something that doesn't affect them in any way.

In all reality, he's not hurting anyone, or himself or his girlfriend for that matter. Maybe the phobias in your area create a boundary where sexual taboo's can't be discussed. Male anal play is fairly common. Now, it's not my cup of tea, but if my best friend was into it, I wouldn't think of him any differently.

At the end of the day, so what? He's into something that doesn't hurt him or anyone around him, so why do you have a problem with it? In reality, you're the one with the problem, not him. Accept people for who they are, not what they shove up their ass.

[EbelEyes]

Why bother avoiding him? Just because he happens to shove a dildo up his ass, it doesn't change who he is. So what if he likes doing that, to me thats not wierd at all, fuck it, whatever floats your bloat.

Your just going to have to accept that that is how he is. He's still the same person, your just going to have to accept that fact that he enjoys having a dildo up his ass.

You'll get over it, and you will feel normal around him again if you can just accept it.

[Ammie]

Oh Snap!! this has got to win funniest thread of the year!

[NightProwler]

Why does this bother you so much? It doesn't make him gay, or bi or anything (although I dont know his sexuality). It doesnt change the person he is, think about it this way; he liked a dildo in the ass before you found out about it and you didnt think anything weird of him so why should you now? I understand that it's a shocking thing to hear about your friend, I guess but it doesnt change who HE is. He's just kinky, you'll get over it.

i really couldnt have said it better myself...

[Shannon]

Maybe he doesnt even like a dildo up his ass and hes just telling this chick that he does so shell do kinky stuff too...