Quote Originally Posted by Smokeychik
Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!

But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.
Technicaly, it's not anyone's business if the guy likes a dildo up his ass.

If a guy likes a dildo up his ass that is his business, not his girlfriend's friends business.

It's in a chicks nature to talk about her sexual relations with her boyfriend? Well it's human nature to kill other humans. Nature doesn't make shit anymore ok in the mind of an embarrasssed individual.

From that logic you could say, "People kill, so why are you against murder?"

Why is it not ok for the guy to listen in to a private conversation between chicks, but it is ok for chicks to talk about something private about their boyfriends to the other chicks? Doesn't make sense.

If he dumps the chick for telling it means he didn't want her to tell anybody else and she violated his privacy.

And as for your reply for my previous message. I was trying to tell you he is not necessarily shallow for looking at his friend diferently because he likes the dildo. Like I said, it is preturbing for some guys to hear that your mate likes simulated gay sex. He simply finds simulated gay sex to be disturbing. That is not being shallow whatsoever.