3-4 times is normal. try foreplay, a bit of light mastarbation should make it easier for her, and don't forget be gentle.
amsterdammed Reviewed by amsterdammed on . first time So my girlfriend, 17 and I, 16, just had sex for the first time recently, but it wasn't too great. She hurt quite a bit when I went in a little too far, but it's always supposed to hurt for the girl the first time, I hear, so she let me so that we could get it over with. About a week later we tried again, and it hurt just as bad for her. How long after the first time does it take before it doesn't hurt for the girl? I hate hurting her but we both want to have sex so we don't really know how Rating: 5