Hey man I am above average and I find that most women don't really care that I have a big dick. Also manny of the women I have slept with found it quite painfull. It actually kinda ruins things. Even now if i don't do it with my wife often enough it is painfull for her. Most women I have had have been all about the fingers and tounge you master those and you will be the king. It's all about attitude, knowledge and skill.