Hi, Knowm. Iloveyou.

You know, I think the reason we ladies tend not to worry about size as much as guys do is that we don't have that equipment. We're not into measuring Civics against SUVs as a test of power and might. Guys get much more into that contest than we do.

Speaking from personal experience, I've found that size can cause more problems that it solves. My husband is large physically and, well, intimately, too. At about 270 lbs, He outweighs me by 135 pounds, although he's only 6 inches taller than my 5' 10." That's considerably more power and force behind him, and it can be uncomfortable at times. Sure, I went for a tall guy. I'm tall myself and tended to lean toward combining my genes with another tall person. But if he were just a tad smaller in one critical area, it would be easier and more comfortable for his wife. That's all I was saying.