birdgirl i have to agree with you. but on the other hand i cant knock a straight raw, anonymous, fuck. it just feels good to do nothing but satisfy that desire, you'll never see this person again, so you can cut loose and do anything youve been wanting to do without the fear of repercussion. to love someone and to sleep with them is an entire different feeling and desire that youre trying to satisfy. its more about connection and just being with each other in that case. IMHO