I dunno man. My wang is certainly not big at all, but I can do things with it that makes her scream bloody murder. It's all in your technique I think. If all else fails use your hand. I'm convinced that it's easier to hit the gspot with your fingers as they can curl up. Try throwing her legs over your sholder and hit it like that. I've heard it's the best way for small guys to hit the spot, jut be careful. I've hurt the misses doing it and getting too rough.