yeah, forget about size. I'm a bit above average myself and have actually found that some girls stop enjoying sex and just get hurt if i play too hard. heh, of course the girl im with right now likes all of it, but that's rare.

Seriously man, just use it right and you WONT EVER HAVE COMPLAINTS. Besides why would you care anyway? If it feels good, it feels good. No offense to the ladies here, but that's the girls problem if she doesn't like it, not yours!!!