Dont get me wrong, I went thru some seriously hard times with my son in his teen years...especially between 13 and 15. I absolutely forbidded him from smoking even though I knew he was doing it.

I preached to him so many times about the dangers of drugs, how I thought that weed was ok but going onto others things is not and smoking at the age of 14 simply would not be tolerated. I know this is when he started (14) and it was hard for me to handle because I knew I started at 16 and that I guess was what I thought to an acceptable age just because that was when I started, but again it would not be tolerated around me to see.

So many kids are starting too young in my mind, but my kid has turned out alright.

Now I cant be everyones dad here.....

Except for the girls over 21.....I'll be glad to "be your daddy"

just kiddin....happily married.