um...i know alot of women that have kids by the age of 16...not good..but it is a fact...i think that she needs to open her horizons...yes she may be a born lesbian...maybe she is one of those women that likes to be hurt during sex...maybe she likes other things like handcuffs...you know the kinky shit...tell her to give it a try...from the sounds of it ....she is already not a virgin...so....tell her to explore.....