I know where you're coming from, man; I was once the same way. It takes time for a 'shy' person to come out of their shell. For me, it didn't happen until 'after' I first got laid, but casual encounters gradually led up to more and more confidence. Like, I was extemely nervous around girls when younger. (Early highschool) but some of the girls kinda dug that, and everything built up from there...holding hands, to kissing, to boobs, to muff, to sex.

All you need to do is be yourself, man. Alot of girls won't be into you, but 'some' will. Just take it easy, and allow it to happen naturally,

What I'm trying to say is: "Don't rush it". it 'will' happen for you. All you have to do is be who you are, and let it. (The girls will find you)

Peace,