Help me?

[Captain Hanks]

I dont like being a virgin.
But thats not my main concern. I just want to meet some girls and have fun, but im a very shy and calm person. It seams like its hard for me to open up and talk because I think I take things slower and am less energetic than most girls I know. How should I meet more peopel like myself?

I just want to meet some nice shy easy going people.

just be yourself, so that in the end you meet someone similar, try talking to someone with the same interests, be confident, know your the man

[FAllout]

Balls!

I called a girl Ive know for a while tonight at 1:30 cus I knew she would be up

Well she tells me to come over and help her "clean" cus her mom isent home and wont be for a few days...

So I drive over there hang out with her for a while, start drinking and gettign closer.
Well were in her room in her bed with the lights off.. and we see head lights comign fromher drive way.
She gets up Aw fuck my moms here!

I hide in the closet for about 20 mins an litine to her talk to her mom and open her window lol

Finaly a little drunk adn kinda disapointed I leave through her window.

It was fun though andI think ill see her again soon.

I wont forget this one anyt time soon either lol


Sorry about the spelling im a little drunk,

[JR77]

Ahhh....to be young again! Anyway...the best advice I can give you (me also being shy and very laid back) is do what I did...and like Captain Hanks above said...you have to find people with your own interests and then you will be getting into whatever your talking about or doing and you will see that you are not as shy as you think!! Go with the flow! Good luck.......

[slowthestone]

Shy + alcohol = uninhibited. (don't make a habit out of getting drunk before sex)

Virgin + letting a gal know you're a virgin = someone that will find it adorable and irresistible to not deflower you.

Time + experience = confidence.

Confidence - arrogance = a powerful aphrodisiac.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Shy + alcohol = uninhibited. (don't make a habit out of getting drunk before sex)

Virgin + letting a gal know you're a virgin = someone that will find it adorable and irresistible to not deflower you.

Time + experience = confidence.

Confidence - arrogance = a powerful aphrodisiac.

Gimme a guy who knows that and I'd be happy!

congrats on the girl, mate!

[stickyinsalem]

dude...i think your making the right steps into the right direction...you are still young...when i was 16 or 17 i didnt know what the hell i was going to do...i felt desperate to have sex...but would lock up if the girl actually wanted to...but then i did have sex...and my confidence grew...but i didnt think i was the bomb at it or anything..or atleast til the girl would say i was the best...and many have said that...even now...at age 23 i went to a bar like 4 times a week and couldnt get none...then i met my girl friend...i completely opened up to her...and told her shit that i would never have thought would come out of my mouth...like i told her that i was going to fuck her brains out better then any guy ever had before...and sure as shit....she still tells me that she has like a morning after orgasim when she thinks about us having sex the night before...so am i the man? i am to my woman and thats all that matters to me....dont be afraid to be shy....you will open up and free your body when you find someone you like....dont mean its your soul mate...but maybe just someone that makes you sooooo dam hot you cant keep your d.ck soft....youll see what im talking about...PEACE

[zero2104]

after a while u'll get to know the certain girls a lil more and u'll b more comfortable arround them then u wont be as shy