had an ex who had probs w/orgasms during intercourse. talked her into masterbating regularly & she was soon able to climax during sex. women need to learn their bodies. men do as soon as they start to reach puberty, at least when i started getting constant hardons around 12-13 i started knockin' 'em down! helps u later in love becuz u get to know when your about to cum & take appropiate action to forestall that climax if she hasn't been satisfied yet. r