help,,, not for me, for my freind

[hipEstoner]

ok, so heres the story,,,
my best freind which is a girl has been going out with one of my freinds for about 6 months. he treated her soo good before they were going out buying her weed, flowers, cards, giving her money and a bunch of other shit, . when they started going out things started going downhill, basically he treats her like shit, if he calls and she doesnt answer he will leave a message bitching her out saying fuck you bitch, what the fuck im your fucking boyfreind and you wont answer the fucking phone,, she will call back and she always has a good excuse why she didnt answer as such that she would be taking a shower,downstairs, outside, ect.. her boyfreind which is not my freind anymore bitches out his grandma, treats her like shit, and even hits his grandma, i one time had to knock him out to keep him from beating the shit out of his grandma, ,,, i think that if she keeps going out with him he will start to treat her like his grandma,,,, she has tried breaking up with him before,, sometimes he will say fuck you, blah blah blah, but then the next day he will come over and act like nothing happened , like they hadnt even broken up,,, and then other times he will threaten to kill himself or his grandma if she breaks up with him and he will promise to change,, , she has tried to break up with him about 20 times but shes scared to because shes scared of what will happen, either him killing himself of one of his family,,, shit ive tried to help but i have no idea what to do,,

please help for her sake, any thoughts to tthis prediciment my best freind has gotten herself into will be greatly apppreciated

hipEstoner Reviewed by hipEstoner on 08-09-2006. help,,, not for me, for my freind ok, so heres the story,,, my best freind which is a girl has been going out with one of my freinds for about 6 months. he treated her soo good before they were going out buying her weed, flowers, cards, giving her money and a bunch of other shit, . when they started going out things started going downhill, basically he treats her like shit, if he calls and she doesnt answer he will leave a message bitching her out saying fuck you bitch, what the fuck im your fucking boyfreind and you wont Rating: 5

[lilweedprincess88]

i went through that recently almost exactly the same with my bf...it kindda scared me reading it actually it was soo like him...my ex now...I found out the other day that he has been cheatin on me for 2 months....If i were u i would tell her to dump him and if he keeps buggin her afterward put a restrainin order on him. Thats what my parents want to do bc my ex keeps trying to see me and buggin me on msn harrasing me about wantein to be with me like nothin bad happened like he did no wrong. He hit me too and crap so my rents are too happy with him i think my dad wants to kill but SHE SHOULD DIFFENTLY GET OUT NOW AND IF HE WON'T LEAVE HER ALONE PUT THE RESTRAINING ORDER ON OR CHARGE HIM IT HARRASSMENT...thats my advice

[WeedFaerie420]

How old is the girl and her psycho boyfriend? Maybe you should write an annonymous (unless you want to say who you are) letter to her parents from a concerned friend and give them a heads up on her situation, especially if she is under 18. I don't think there is much you can do other than to try to give her advice and be there for her if she needs to get away from her boyfriend/ needs a safe place to stay. She has to make the decision to leave, and when she does, she has to make it final. If he threatens to harm himself or another person, she NEEDS to call the police and should definetly get a restraining order against this guy. There are things that can be done, but not much if she isn't willing to stand up for herself. I wish her the best and hope she leaves him before he gets really physically abusive. She's lucky she has a friend who cares so much.

[invision]

thats a easy one a nice pipe and some anger will cure him of his problem

[hipEstoner]

thats a easy one a nice pipe and some anger will cure him of his problem

im pretty sure that wont help at all,

as for the other people, thanks for ur advice, ill talk to her about getting a restraining order against him

[Samwhore]

your friend sounds like a dick

[orangeman]

hipEstoner, if your really her friend he's treating a female like this smash him in the back of the fuckin head with a 40 oz. And strike the fuck out of him with the jagged edges of the busted bottle. Excuse that but I really hate when men try to overpower females or act as if they are a guy with how they treat them. Such as trying to fight them or talk to them like they are out of their minds or something. What the hell...

[hipEstoner]

hipEstoner, if your really her friend he's treating a female like this smash him in the back of the fuckin head with a 40 oz. And strike the fuck out of him with the jagged edges of the busted bottle. Excuse that but I really hate when men try to overpower females or act as if they are a guy with how they treat them. Such as trying to fight them or talk to them like they are out of their minds or something. What the hell...

i already fucked him up once when he held a frying pan over her head about to hit her

[orangeman]

Wow, dude you need to tell your friend to get rid of that fuck, I have no sympathy for men who rape babies, men who rape other helpless men or men who abuse women or rape them. They need to be a real man and pick on some one that is a challenge. Fuck him, I could give a fuck if he killed his self. Once again I apologize but this type of stuff really gets me angry.

[Captain Hanks]

thats called abuse and i believe there are people she could call about it