Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Hey, guy. I saw you were online briefly on one of the political threads, but I didn't get there in time to catch you.

Just wanted to hear what the latest is if you feel like giving an update. Hope all is OK. I sense you've been low these days. Haven't heard much from you lately anywhere around here. Take care!
Ive been better than usual actually.

As far as a check in on the divorce and such, we are still doing mediation. The benefits of staying out of court on matters such as these are very hard for me to ignore, altho I fear the other participant in this matter doesnt feel the same. And altho I am guilty of blackmail in order to force her into mediation, I believe had I not done this, things would be very bad indeed.

We are in the proccess of gathering information as to the value of our home, after that things will move along rather swiftly. Only a few more things to work out, altho allot of the situation has been left in the relm of implications, instead of staements. I wont let it stay this way however, I think you atleast know I dont like to deal with what one intended to mean or say, I like to stay in the relm of what someone actually says or does as much as I can.

I went to Toronto this past weekend to visit my cousin and his girlfriend, I found that I miss my children emensly when I am away, altho sometimes I wish I was away when they around out of sorts.

It was a good experience, even tho it was painfull at times, in the end, the pain brings understanding and this will also be the case with the overall situation I'm sure.

I appreciate your concern in this, it is nice to know that someone on the outside looking in, is concerned.

I hope all is well with your sister, I dont think I have ever directly talked to you about this. Its in no small measure that I know what you are going thru, my father died of lung cancer. I have often thought of writeing something to you on this subject, I think it my own pain that I keeps me from it.
My father was a good person, and its very hard for me to deal with him passing the way he did.

I feel you have a tremendous amount of strength to deal with your situation the way you are, I think its very difficult to find courage when faced with pain.

Keep liveing life Bird, I think that in the end, we might just find out its all we ever really had to do.

Best wishes.
Marlboroman Reviewed by Marlboroman on . A check-in for Marlboroman Hey, guy. I saw you were online briefly on one of the political threads, but I didn't get there in time to catch you. Just wanted to hear what the latest is if you feel like giving an update. Hope all is OK. I sense you've been low these days. Haven't heard much from you lately anywhere around here. Take care! Rating: 5