Yea it all his confusion and like a cold or virus your catching it. If you have caller ID don't talk to her just give her voice mail from now on. As far as him what I'm saying is just go with the flo, let him think his lie is working say to him yea I understand everything yoursaying it makes so much since, but then do your own thing. If you try to make him march to your drum of truth ,he won't, it's better you control what you can which is you. Don't force him to learn what your trying to teach him just paly stupid for him with YOUR WORDS, but YOUR ACTIONS should say other than what your mouth is, he'll get the message that your stronger than he thinks. Hes stronger now because he does what he wants, your weaker because you got to ask him to do what you want. I just don't know all the facts but 2 faces is the oldest game in the book. Main thing don't sit around and wine about it, do your own thing or its just time lost.