The problem is hes confused not you. It doesn't matter whos right or wrong but the simple fact that there is 2 different faces, One for you and one for her means hes trying to manage a lie. If he would have told you up front that hes seeing her for her money or likes both of you or what ever it is, as long as there is no lieing then all parties can decide what they want. You may have said let just cool it a little but we can see each other here or there, but hey I may see someone else also. If he's like "F*CK that" then you need to say yea F*CK TAHT DON"T CALL ME if I can't play by the same rules as you. Just be sure that you decide what the rules are for you and he can set his own rules but you don't need to live by his rules that are open for him but very limmited for you.The lie is the worst thing going on here your just refuseing to see it, he has set a rule that lieing is OK. Well fine so lie to him back in whatever fasion benifts you. I'm not saying be all devious and mean or somebody you don't want to be, but no one ever gets hurt if everyone is truthful and plays by the same rule set whatever that may be. How could you play chess or football or basketball - if one team gets to dribble out of bounds or walk with the ball and gets 10 points for a single shot and your rule is you can't touch the ball with your hands but must use you feet and you only get 1 point per basket and the other team trys to convence you that NO THIS IS FAIR. All I'm saying is be truthful and do what you want to do.