ok. thanks for all the info. it def. helped. i guess the only thing im really afraid of is 'IF' she says no, then it will suck seeing her at work. it will be hard trying to talk to her knowing that she knows i wanted to be more than friends, but she doesnt. i know for sure that if i was put in her position, then i probably would think a little different of her.

btw i have one more question: It is a bad idea to ask her out over the phone isn't it?