dont ask her over the phone, or msn those are the worst possible ways, just go for it you seriously only live once so theres no point in not going for it, if i was working with a girl i liked and i asked her out and she turned me down i would probably just be friends with her cause you never know whos going to grow up to be who so keep your options open. thats y i still talk to the dumb hot girls at school cause maybe after highschool, reality will set in on them and we might to be able to have a decent conversation while they still have there looks