You guys are all blowing this out of porportion. Graph and birdgirl give atleast some logical sense. I never once said that she ISNT ALLOWED to do coke, I said its my opinion, I expressed my concern, and if she choose's to do so then its her decision. But if she developes an addiction, it would make me feel bad because I didnt put my foot down, but like you guys and girls said I am not her farther nor should I try to be. I have put my foot down on boys she dated only because they have treated her like shit at times and I wont stand for that and she likes that I care about her, and meth and crack and herione I will put my foot down firm and if she decides to remove it, her choice, then we arent as good as friends as I thought we were.

I did not tell her not to do it all I clearly said I think its Fucked up that a 16 year old gets up and wants to do coke.

Graph and birdgirl, if you have more advice please dont be shy to post, I find your post's most enlightning and since I am only 17 my self, your words of wisdom go along way and will with me for life.