That's sounds like one of the lamest parties I ever head of. From the time I was 15 till now in my 30's... Almost every party I go to some people will slip out, take a walk down the street or sit in a car and puff a spliff. Everyone pretty much will know, but if they don't smoke, then they don't care what the smokers are doing. Where I grew up and live, if you smoke, that's your choice. If you do n't smoke then so be it. Everyone gets along.

From the sounds of it you prolly asked the wrong (read: most uptight stick a lump of coal in their ass and you'll have a diamond in three days) people. Even my company holiday party people smoke, granted they will do it on the way there (not something to do in front of the boss).

Their loss. I bet Brittany Spears was playing and everyone was dancing with glowsticks in their hands. :dance: