Serious Question...

[Thetrippinhippie]

hey d00d. its whatever about all that happened. if she gets pregnant, just hide out somewhere low key for a few months or something. like say, a close friend or family member who by chance lives in a secluded wooded area? or get on welfare checks and live in your parents back room for a while til you can get on your own two feet, juknow? but thats IF shes preggy .
i wish you luck, kind sir

[birdgirl73]

Tbagu, I hope all turns out OK for you and that she's not pregnant. Believe me, even if she were, your parents would still love you a great deal. They'd be upset and disappointed and worried, but they'd still love you. I have a 20-year-old son and live in fear of exactly this sort of situation, but if it did happen, we'd love and support him and his girlfriend in whatever decision they made.

Morning-after pills are going to be available without a prescription probably within this next year sometime, but they'll only be available to girls who're 18 or older. Contrary to what some people believe, they're not abortion pills. They're just heavier doses of the same hormones that are in birth control pills. Until they become available without a prescription, a girl has to call her doctor as soon as possible after unprotected sex so the doc can call in the prescription and she can take the morning-after pill within 72 hours, preferably within the first 24.

It's important to set the record straight on a couple of things Cannabis said above that are inaccurate. Infertility after abortions is very rare and is probably no higher than 2%. And early term abortion procedures don't have a 40-day limit. The standard D&C and D&E procedures can generally be performed up to 18 weeks or so. After 16 or 18 weeks, the options do involve some type of saline or hormonal injection-initiated birth.

Hope your situation has the most positive--and here I actually mean a negative pregnancy test--outcome possible!

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Tbagu, I hope all turns out OK for you and that she's not pregnant. Believe me, even if she were, your parents would still love you a great deal. They'd be upset and disappointed and worried, but they'd still love you. I have a 20-year-old son and live in fear of exactly this sort of situation, but if it did happen, we'd love and support him and his girlfriend in whatever decision they made.

Morning-after pills are going to be available without a prescription probably within this next year sometime, but they'll only be available to girls who're 18 or older. Contrary to what some people believe, they're not abortion pills. They're just heavier doses of the same hormones that are in birth control pills. Until they become available without a prescription, a girl has to call her doctor as soon as possible after unprotected sex so the doc can call in the prescription and she can take the morning-after pill within 72 hours, preferably within the first 24.

It's important to set the record straight on a couple of things Cannabis said above that are inaccurate. Infertility after abortions is very rare and is probably no higher than 2%. And early term abortion procedures don't have a 40-day limit. The standard D&C and D&E procedures can generally be performed up to 18 weeks or so. After 16 or 18 weeks, the options do involve some type of saline or hormonal injection-initiated birth.

Hope your situation has the most positive--and here I actually mean a negative pregnancy test--outcome possible!

Thanks! I really hope everything works out really well for me and my gf. I don't think she is pregnant though.. she has been having symptoms of her period coming for the past couple days. Plus, today, she was really mean to me.. saying some of the meanest shit i have heard from her. It hurt me, but i blew it off as knowing her period is probably starting here. I guess i'll find out pretty soon.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

How long ago did she have her period? Something a bit more reliable is to figure out when she was ovulating, while she can get pregnant when she isn't ovulating, it's pretty rare. You can figure out when she was ovulating (about) using http://www.babycenter.com/calculators/ovulation/ <- that. Hopefully she bleeds and none of this is a problem though!

Don't worry hon, That's happened to me two or three times before (and torn condoms too), be sure that both of you don't stress too much until you know facts not assumptions and try and get her on birth control or have a plan/go to planned parenthood and talk to someone there. It sucks but there's a shitload of responsibility attached to having a nice bang

[cannabis campbell]

Exactly! Thanks man for supporting me. Most of the times it's my gf urging for sex, not me. So, if whoever doesn't like it and says, "... then why are you having sex?" then they probably aren't getting any sex and are just jealous. Accidents do happen, its a fact of life.

seriously if shes your gf

why dont you just put her on the pill if she always wants sex?

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

seriously if shes your gf

why dont you just put her on the pill if she always wants sex?

Because she can't get it yet. She also will never use the morning after pill which pisses me off. Anyways, GOOD NEWS!!!


She isn't pregnant. Today, i was in school and she texted me and was like, "I got my period!!" and i was happy to hear that. So, thank ALL of you for helping me through this and making me feel more comfortable about it. It was a scary time for atleast the past 4 weeks and now i can relax and not worry one bit. Thanks again to everyone out there that helped!

[LIP]

Same thing happened to me when i had sex with my ex.

Thing was the condom didnt slip off, i just forgot to put it on and she didnt care.

She got the morning after pill, i got a slap.

All worked out for the better though, cos she went on the pill and i got away without wearing stupid condoms... god i cant stand em.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Same thing happened to me when i had sex with my ex.

Thing was the condom didnt slip off, i just forgot to put it on and she didnt care.

She got the morning after pill, i got a slap.

All worked out for the better though, cos she went on the pill and i got away without wearing stupid condoms... god i cant stand em.

Yeah man, the feeling of thinking you got the girl pregnant is horrible. Worst 4 weeks of my life pretty much. I can't stand condoms either. I mean, you get all horny and are ready to have sex and then you have to put on a condom which for me sometimes, my erection goes down and i have to get it up all over again just to insert it into her. It sucks. Condoms do blow ass, but atleast they keep you safe from STD's for the most part.