Porn question...

[GatzBurst]

I must admit i enjoy porn much, but i enjoy it most when i watch it with my wife, she is not a lesbian and says she could never imagine being with another female, but i think she does appreciate the beauty of the female body, as do i.

[GatzBurst]

Although Sarah, 30 websites is a bit excessive, i think. i could understand 1 to at MOST 10. But 30? Are you guys sexually active?

[Euphoric]

only 30 sites!? wtf.

[Pipe Dreams]

Yeah for real though, Im engaged and my girl knows I look at porn. Shit, sometimes she watches it with me. Kinda wierd at first, but its pretty cool man!

[Buddha Man]

well you cant always have ur girl around you and im sure most girls dont wanna have sex 5 times a day. so you should have sex twice a day, and wack it the other 3 times. but if the girl wants to do it 5 times then fuck the wacking

[Cooler Then Jesus]

just to let you know, while masturbating, some guys can go through anywhere from 30-100 porn sites in one sitting. so he obviously aint doing it TOO mutch. nothign to break up with him over.

[irishAFRICAN]

yeah but let's be honest....do we ever think of our gals when we're wanking off?? I love my gal, but I think of porn chicks when im playing wit myself yo. so I think sumtimes gals feels imtimidated coz they know we aint thinking of them....okay sumtimes I do, but it's mostly fantasies we have right?

[BabyFacedAbortion]

BLECH! I had a huge long post typed up and everything but now I'm going to shorten it.

Basically, don't worry about porn. He's coming home (or was) to you at night and porn is something that ANYONE can view, it's not personal or intimate, it's basically the same as googling "bewbies". Would you be mad at him for doing that? I wouldn't worry only because of how distant of a sexual act porn is.

Masturbation is "you time" I think, which means you're letting yourself go. I think you don't think of your girly at the time of wanking because you're so lost in fantasies and crazy thoughts that reality is too far gone. Porn stars just happen to be reliable to fulfill your dreams while your chick may not be too down with it. (Some of you boys have some funky fetishes, I will say!)

Make sense? Hopefully

[LordSmaug]

Totally normal.

[Samwhore]

I truly believe it's just a completely normal guy thing. Doesn't take away from his feelings about you. They have a lot more sexual urges and impulses than we typically do, and for many many guys, porn is a routine part of their solo sexual time.

Most men are visual, highly sexual creatures. I wouldn't worry about it or feel threatened by it unless you notice that he's spending an obsessively heavy amount of time surfing porn sites and no time at all interacting sexually with you. If he's still hot for you and your intimate relationship is good, just think of the porn as a harmless masturbatory hobby.

agreed