Wow, it pains me to read that. It's just so horrible that the worst thing about marijuana is how the state destroys people's lives. Have a little weed when you are an adult, your life is ruined. With lawyers, legal fees, and charges hinder your ability to get a job to pay it off. It makes me my legal issues look like nothing.

I wish I could offer some good advice, but I think birdgirl got the basis pretty much cover. I just wish you guys the best of luck.