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The greatest source of energy in the universe is sexual, and places high value on ritualised intercourse. Sexual orgasm is seen as a cosmic and divine experience."

So how do you do it?
Firstly, as a disciple of Tantra, you're required to put aside a certain amount of time every day to 'reconnect' with your partner. You may use this time to lie in bed facing your lover, sharing breathing exercises, or you may prefer simply to touch your lover or run him/her a bath or offer him/her a long, sensual massage. Or the two of you might even partake in a spot of sex. Whichever way you choose to spend this quality time, the point of the exercise is to generate sexual energy. It's a ritual that's supposed to be particularly helpful to women who struggle to find satisfaction from regular, non-Tantric sex because their minds tend to wander to other unrelated matters. These sessions are said to train a gal to be ready and eager for sex at a moment's notice, and to remain focused. And there's something in these daily episodes for her lover, too - it improves his stamina, so he can pump away for a whole lot longer. But there's a rub... a fella must never ejaculate during these reconnection sessions, as the aim is to heighten sexual energy, not to expend it.

Practice makes perfect...
Needless to say, it takes practice for a bloke to come over and over. In the first instance, he needs to learn to control his pubococcygeus (PC) muscle, which roots his penis to his body. Once he has learnt how to contract this muscle at will, he will be capable of taking himself to the brink of orgasm, squeezing hard, then climaxing without spilling his seed. So there it is, Tantric sex in a nutshell. To summarise, it's all about learning to slow down. Once you've learnt the Tantric ropes, sex stops being an act that you're simply doing - something that perhaps you feel a little detached from, like you're observing yourself from a distance - and you become more absorbed in the act of making love, fully 'in the moment'. As a result, sex becomes a more serene, spiritual experience.


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