okay saweet yeah ithink its a 14 g my friend just hooked me up with some earrings and i really like this one, its a round bar bell i think? with two balls on the end, and its silver, pretty skinny but the hole in my ear is like the size of a needle, tried putting in the bigger earring, nope wont fit lol

oh yeah and how would i go about stretching my ear anyways? no one really told me how! sorry im such a newb lol