Quote Originally Posted by IanCurtisWishlist
very good points you have made here. however, the key word is "SMART GIRLS" i haven't found many "smart girls" in my time. in fact, i'd say most people in my generation are just plain dumb ass brainless morons--girls included. not that im arrogant, it's just that... well. take a good look around you.

when you said "smart girls wont be blatant...", could you elaborate more? are smart girls not as blatant because they feel they might ruin any potential future with their dream man by being blatant?

also, in response to what you said about courting ladies... i'm not even sure how to court a lady. in my experience, women are big dumb sluts. sorry if that sounds harsh-- it's just that, well, it's what i see most often. I'd like to clarify that I'm not some sexist, calling all women sluts. indeed there are many , many fine women out there--both in personality and in looks. just not around me, and none my age. I find that as the years go on, girls become even sluttier and sluttier (is sluttier even a word?) at younger ages. for example, i know of girls losing their virginity at 13 years old. while that might not be big news to anybody who'se been around for a while, i'm sure we can all agree on some level that girls are becoming more promiscuous (sp?) and are being exposed to sex at a much younger age. perhaps that's the reason why they're more "sluttier".

okay well anyways, that would be another topic all together. any feelings on the subject?
Well, in regards to smart, desirable girls, I simply mean that they tend not to be real obvious in how they feel, whether they're interested, etc., till they get to know you. So they wouldn't be blatantly aggressive or flirtatious right away, and they wouldn't dream of getting sexual nearly as quickly as some of the less desirables do. They'd be smart in that they'd take their time and have the self-esteem to know they deserve someone who'll treat them well and wouldn't just have sex right away without any type of emotional-intellectual-friendship connection. Perhaps an even better word would be "selective" than smart. I think their behavior truly has more to do with self-esteem than intellect.

Sorry your experience of women has been so negative. I can't remember if I've read your precise age, but I'm guessing somewhere around 16 or 17. I saw your creative writing exercise on the other thread and could tell you had some stuff to vent. The girls will likely get better and smarter as you get further in school and up into college. They'll also get less silly and cliquish and giggly and knuckleheaded as they mature more. Sometimes guys' attitudes toward girls are colored heavily by their relationships with the grown women in their lives, so if you don't have a good relationship with your mom/stepmom/grandmom/sister(s), it would follow that you'd have some negative opinions of girls. Also, if, as I gather, you've just been through a breakup or rejection of some kind, that could affect your attitudes.

If you want me to tell you what I think on the subject of "courting" from a female perspective, I will. I'm just going to go get a Diet Coke for a moment. If you prefer that I quit writing, I can do that, too.