Oblio, Very sound and constructive advice. Thank You.

Hopefully, it will never come to any of that, this will never have a day in court if we are both reasonable.

I believe I will take allot of your advice, as for who could support them better, the answer is her.

As for who they would be better off with, well thats a toss up. neither of us are abusive, addicts, or alcholics. We just dont get along, nor am I attracted to her physically, mentally, or spiritualy.

We DO NOT have argeuments, I personally refuse to have any conversation with her about this divorce outside of a therapists or mediators office, any discussion we have had to this poiint has been mojnitored by a proffesional.

I really do believe we are both working in the childrens best interests, except when the issue of me paying support is on the table. Logically it doesnt make sense to have me pay when she makes the percentage above me she does. Maybe its just a logic thing on my part, but it just doesnt seem to make sense.

She does know im a member here, altho she does not know my screen name, but asking a mod to delete is a good idea.

Peace Oblio, and sorry for the defensive stance. I try to stay fluid, but dont always manage it.