Quote Originally Posted by Oblio
just sign away your parental rights. I reread your post and it is all about "you". "You" living in poverty. "You" having to move back to texas.

"YOU" have to be a good father and role model. Get your spine straight! If she makes more money then ask for alimony. If you are talking to lawyers that are going to cost you 200k....that's absurd. I think "you" need to start now by giving up any extras in your life and save money. Cigs, Dope, Movies, Cd's, and everything else that is not needed to survive. "You" can not wait 3 to 4 years to be a responsible parent.

Do not be weak. You have a choice now that will be a judge of your character for the rest of your life.
OK, you need to stop being so judgemental, you dont even have your facts straight for one thing.

All of the things ive said that differ from the regular divorce are obtainable in mediation.

Second, why ask for alimony then turn around and pay it back in support?

That make any sense to you?

Next, just being here for my children is suppoprt, Ill say it again, I am not from this area, If i cannot survive, or if I can only survive in the ghetto, how much of a role model am I being for my children?

How will my children see me when I live on a block with gangbangers and crack houses?

Because let me tell you, thats whats in the neighborhoods that I would be in should I have to pay support. Ya, so that dont make sense to you, oh well, thats not really my issue. An apartment here runs equally expensive as houseing, that dont make sense to you?, again not my issue.

Unless you have personal experience with these matters, id suggest you take your weakness coments and pack them. This is extremely difficult thing to go thru, the threat of being forced away from my children is much harder of an issue than my father passing away.

Your entire 2 posts(lifetime) say you have no idea what it is your talking about.

Take your judgemental ass back to reading posts, and dont open your mouth till you have something constructive to say.