DUDE...you have a child and you don't want to help support it...thats sad. Besides in the u.s.a. the custodial parent does not say how much you owe. THE COURT DOES! NOW...on another note, When you file for divorce the state gets custody of your child and "AWARDS" custody normally to one of you. AT any given time they can revock custody. If you go in front of a judge and say she gets custody if you don't have to pay...that judge will think you are a total loser as a parent hendering any appearance you have in that court room ever again.
Oblio Reviewed by Oblio on . I need advice OK this isnt about sex, but im putting this here anyway. I am currently going thru a divorce. My wife has stated that if i give her custody she will waive child support. This is important because of where we live, I am not native to the area and I have no family other than my children in the area. I cannot move into my parents basement, I have no relatives here at all. My wife makes a hefty salary approx 120% more than me. For a while now ive been a stay at home dad, this was done Rating: 5